I have seen a lot of “teachings” lately that question whether or not Monogamy is “natural.” They are an exercise in missing the point, and in many ways a return to ethical standards of biblical times where “natural” was defined by majority practice. Monogamy isn’t about who you choose to have sex with, it’s about who you choose to be intimate with. If your goal is racking up orgasms, you will not be monogamous. If you goal is interpersonal intimacy, you will be monogamous. Nobody said real and lasting intimacy is easy, but it is ultimately more rewarding that holding the World Record for disconnected orgasm.