The truth is that, no matter how hard we try, controlling life is a task at which we are bound to fail. Even is we occasionally appear to succeed, the stress we must endure in the attempt will strangle all of the satisfaction out of those rare moments of success. In the process we will alienate friends, family, coworkers, and even casual acquaintances. Bridezilla never enjoyed her wedding day, perfectionists set themselves up for disappointment, and even the best student occasionally gets a “B” on a test. Let go and enjoy life!