It seems we are very good at hurting others and not so good when it comes to promoting healing. We make ourselves feel better by identifying those we imagine are less important, good, or holy that ourselves and letting them know about it. When we do this, we are wrong – and all of us do it at least some of the time. The most important spiritual work of this incarnation may well be learning not to do it, but to accomplish that mighty task we first need to know that we are okay. Once we believe we are okay, there is no need to disparage anyone else.