You wouldn’t try to relocate the street in front of you home, would you? Of course not, because you realize that is an impossible task for any one person. Yet how many of us spend countless hours trying to change things that simply aren’t going to change? Whether we are talking about our relationship partners, our body type, or the past, there are scores of things in our lives that aren’t going to change – but that doesn’t stop many of us from trying. In the process we become frustrated and feel powerless. A better approach is to focus on what can be changed and leave the impossible tasks to Superman.