We often want to blame others for the choices we make that we are later not happy with. We sign up for a number of emails and then complain we get too many and something should be done about that! We agree to do something and later find out more work is required than we originally thought – and we blame those people for getting us to sign up. The list goes on and on. A big part of becoming a healthy, fully functioning adult is learning to take responsibility for our own choices – and allowing others to take responsibility for theirs!