It seems like many of us have lost all patience for anything even remotely resembling delayed gratification. Think about how many programs, CDs, DVDs, books, magazine, talks, seminars, and the like that purport to offer us results that normally take years just for attending, listening to, watching, or reading whatever media the seller is pushing. The truth is that none of that works, because all growth is a process. Even if we could find a short cut to get a result, we would still be lacking what is learned along the way. Some things still need to be done the old-fashioned way,